I love my partner and she is good in the bed as well but I always find my self wanting more. I've asked for a threesome but she isn't keen on it so I'm not really sure what I should do any thoughts?

 

Must just be me lol

 

well i can tell u you're and asshole

but i wont

 

Lol fair call I guess

 

Nope it's not strange at all. If you're not getting what you want at home then it's just natural to go some where to get it.

 

no it is not normal to want to cheat.. its normal to fantasize about other people but to actually want to stray is wrong as fuck.... i live by the belief if i want to stray then end the relationship cuz you obviously dont really love ur partner... if you loved someone you wouldnt hurt them.. and if you give the old "how can it hurt if she doesnt find out" ur a jerk and deserve to die from some AIDS related illness...

 

I guess the way I see it is really it has to do with you own code of ethics. Me I really CAN understand wanting to cheat. But then I also have a code that says I can not and will not do this because if I do then I violate her trust and also my own of myself. I have thought about it .. SERIOUSLY and not even long ago. But to me, at least, my word is my bond. If I don't have that really I have nothing at all.

If I get to the point where I throw in the towel ... and I let this go well that's something completely different ... and I KNOW exactly where I will be even what I will be doing ..... BELIEVE that... but until and IF I ever reach that point then hold true to your word.

 

I do not participate in those mean back-and-forth insult fests. I really have no bad opinions of you. No disrespect is intended.

But, wow. Death penalty for cheating? Gonna be seeing a lot more dead people if that happens.

At one time, death by AIDS was considered just punishment for being gay. Please remove your name from the nominations for Surgeon General.

 

22%er

The American-Saudi Arabia connection appears again.
More islamification/wahabism AQ style...

anyway as for the OP;

28% women and 22% of men have cheated.

'Twenty-five percent of people polled admitted to cheating while in a relationship.

When asked what they would do if they found out a spouse had cheated, a whopping 45 percent said they would consider giving their spouse another chance,
though only 11 percent said they would definitely give their spouse a second chance.

Twenty-eight percent said they would file for divorce no matter what. '
*not_secure_link*www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/12/05/cheating-statistics_n_2240425.html

It is natural mammal as humans are not designed to be monogomous, but hey, no one told the cult founders that.

 

I think that is a low number. I can see why a person would lie when they were asked if they cheated. Especially if they got a phone call asking them the question. Maybe the percentage who said yes are just the percentage of dumb people.

 

Can't cheat in open relationships?
:excited:
"Charles? Have I ever been caught cheating on you darling? The opinion pollster wishes to know."
"No"
"He says no, has never caught me at it."

 

I'll do it for you RedRats.....

YOU'RE AN ARSEHOLE

 

Cheating is dirty pool mister.

 

You want more than she can offer. Why not talk it out so their is a compromise or go your separate ways instead of cheating.

 

I will give you a little free advice.
If you have a partner like you have posted it would be a very good idea to control your urges. There will come a time when sex is not as important as it is now. A partner such as you have is not that common.
Be proud of what you have and spend all of that energy on making what you already have better. There are many men who would be very happy to have what you seem to not appreciate.

 

No Judgment

Before making any big commitment or anything more, maybe you should slow things down. I have no judgment over what you are feeling, however, I do feel the best way is to just be honest.

Maybe take a step back and date other people for a while. Of course, there's always the chance you could lose her over this, or that she'll meet someone else. But, don't cheat when you could just tell her the truth, and let her respond. TELL her the truth before you make a move, that way you'll be keeping true to yourself.

Good luck, friend.

You could always grow together sexually, no one knows the future. But be sure you can hold your head up high no matter how this turns out.

Be, I really would date other peop

 

I see cheating as this way. There is no reason for it. If you feel the need to be with someone else break it off with your girlfriend/boyfriend or wife/husband.

I am not religious either. Militant Atheist.

 

I have dated quite a few married women. At one time that is all I would date.
Just about every married woman I dated did not want to leave their husband. They just liked the excitement of dating while being married. Some of their husbands knew they were fucking around. They were also or they did not have the balls to confront their wife.
Before deciding to enter a relationship this should be thought out. If you are not satisfied with the sex in your relationship then end the relationship.
Looking at and desiring other women is not a problem. Acting on that is a big problem.

 

I had a girlfriend living in my apartment in San Diego got home from a deployment found her in bed with a little skinny fucker beat the shit out of him and kicked her out. The look on his face when I walked in holding my sea bag wearing my service uniform. Priceless.

I always catch Jody Boy one way or another.

 

I never said I was going to or will I. I just wanted to know if it was strange to have the desire to wavy other women or men.
My partner knows how I feel I am completely honest with her but she is fine with it as long as I don't do anything. Ideally I'd like a threesome with her but she doesn't seem very keen on the idea